https://peertube.gravitywell.xyz/videos/watch/ecf6c7b4-9e8f-4585-bfe2-3433a12411fd cis white man explains 4 u! Thank you, Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/bennjordan Or stalk me: https://linktr.ee/BennJordan A blog post from myself and a fellow researcher with citations, references, notes, and suggested reading will be available soon on Medium. 0:00 - Intro 2:00 - Prologue 3:35 - Biology and BS 12:00 - Music Education 13:47 - Homophily 19:00 - Negging 24:40 - Gatekeeping 26:20 - Me Finally Grasping Rape Culture 32:40 - Let's Do Better 36:14 - Thank Yous and Byes Musicians/YouTubers in this video: Bad Snacks: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBCI_QCAMe1hx8UNyvJlM_Q Maddie Jay: https://www.maddiejaymusic.com/ Moshun: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAo5FhFbROFIYqZUASNrppA Sarah Longfield: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCebyBCG2i893i9hbo1mImpQ Spirah: https://soundcloud.com/spirahvocals and Adam Neely: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnkp4xDOwqqJD7sSM3xdUiQ Huge, huge thanks to Cordelia Fine: https://www.cordeliafine.com/ Her Books: https://www.amazon.com/Cordelia-Fine/e/B0034O0AGS/ Videos with the production-value cranked up like this one are made possible with Blackmagic Design's help. Gear used: ATEM Mini Pro https://www.blackmagicdesign.com/products/atemmini Blackmagic Pocket Cinema Camera 6k https://www.blackmagicdesign.com/products/blackmagicpocketcinemacamera DaVinci Resolve 16 (100% FREE!) https://www.blackmagicdesign.com/products/davinciresolve/ Links, citations, timestamps, etc coming soon. Sun, 12 Apr 2026 12:29:27 GMT https://validator.w3.org/feed/docs/rss2.html PeerTube - https://peertube.gravitywell.xyz https://peertube.gravitywell.xyz/lazy-static/avatars/057aa8e0-4799-4a3e-8c5f-12cfd4e4a36c.webp https://peertube.gravitywell.xyz/videos/watch/ecf6c7b4-9e8f-4585-bfe2-3433a12411fd All rights reserved, unless otherwise specified in the terms specified at https://peertube.gravitywell.xyz/about and potential licenses granted by each content's rightholder.